6.25.2015

Out From Under

Summer is usually about spending extra on activities, camp and eating out. No longer are the kiddos in school with a packed lunch to-go. Nope! It’s all on mom to get the day going and keep going until lights out.

Last Sunday was different though, and truthfully I wish I had more of them.

  • Museum passes from the library. Cost: Free
  • Discounted Parking from museum. Cost: $1.00
  • $18.00 beaded bracelet from Kohl’s using rewards cash and additional coupon. Cost: $0.74
  • Pizza coupon. Cost: Free

Freebies and the library’s workshops and activities are making a difference for my child. I hope that you find treasure in your community as well this summer for you and the kids without breaking the budget.

Confession

I am not that diligent about coupons and such, but I do pay attention and try to make good daily decisions. Yet, God has been merciful when I was in the dark and foolishly spending our future.

My journey of being debt free began December 2011 with a decision to get off the hamster wheel and my husband in full agreement, and it has been an ongoing joint effort since. To date we have paid down $14k of credit card debt. We are also working towards paying off our only car note this December while a high deductible for my past surgeries is decreasing monthly.

Freedom! I’m no longer under, but out from under and thriving.

I am thankful for the lessons learned from hard choices made along the way, and my husband’s effort to stand together in this. However, at the foundation of it all was God’s gentle nudge to give me the strength to do something different. It wasn’t easy. Nevertheless, worth every inner grumble as I stopped believing the lies and replaced it with biblical truths in action that would carry us into our future with peace and liberty.

"With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26

6.20.2015

Inside Out



Update (three days later): My daughter and I are still reciting lines and secretly labeling others close to us with emotions. Hysterical! Never did I think it would have made such a mark on us. Go find out what the rest of us are laughing about and see it for yourself!

The hype of Inside Out though mild, left me feeling cheated as the credits rolled. Displeased with my 3D movie experience and the premium tickets paid for. I wanted more, much more. It was a good animated flick that made me cry as well as the urge to grab my daughter's hand to connect as mothers often do. Peppered also with humorous lines, but what about the treasures? There is nothing like leaving a movie theatre feeling full from good content, and above that a message that can make us think and open doors for discussion with our children. Besides, the fun of reciting memorable lines afterwards.

Moving on to mother-mode while in the car, I gave my daughter a quick math problem regarding the movie ticket pricing. Her usual joyful self switched to anger as her limitation in this particular subject became obvious, which was followed by an unrehearsed outburst underlined in disrespect. Instantly I recognized her emotions with an acute awareness. I made eye contact and recited the line, “The foot is going down,” and more of the same came later. Eureka! This movie was worth seeing. We even identified dad's favorite emotion. Thank you Disney Pixar we did find treasure after all!

I recommend Inside Out for children ages nine and older. Parents should see the movie with their children or separately for questions and discussion. The emotion Anger references curse words and is bleeped out once. You may want to wait until this is on DVD if your monthly budget has no wriggle room. If not, at least skip the premium tickets as it lacks 3D pop out effects. If I cannot convince you perhaps it is those goofy keepsake glasses you covet!
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